“When I was young, I observed that nine out of ten things I did were failures. So I did ten times more work. ”
– George Bernard Shaw
No human ever became interesting by not failing. The more you fail and recover and improve, the better you are as a person. Ever meet someone who’s always had everything work out for them with zero struggle? They usually have the depth of a puddle. Or they don’t exist
What do you first do when you learn to swim? You make mistakes, do you not? And what happens? You make other mistakes, and when you have made all the mistakes you possibly can without drowning – and some of them many times over – what do you find? That you can swim? Well – life is just the same as learning to swim! Do not be afraid of making mistakes, for there is no other way of learning how to live
You are supposed to fail.
Because failure is the stepping stone to success.
Failure is an experience that leads to grant the wisdom to built the stronger version of your yourself.
“I’ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.”
– Michael Jordan
So the basic idea is you have to fail 100times to be success once.
It’s the part of it, it’s the part of life as well.
None ever get the success at first time. We make mistakes and learn from it.
That’s how this whole learning process works.
One should learn to not get disappointed by failures.
To Understand failure you have to fail.
You only learn when you failed not other way around.
This journey is hard, riddled with much obstacles mainly failures. So most people don’t want to lead such a life. Because we are afraid of failing. We are afraid of approvals.
“Every adversity, every failure, every heartache carries with it the seed of a greater or equal benefit.”
– Napoleon Hill
You my friend has failed.
Congratulations!!! This is the greatest thing ever happened to you. You are going to discover a whole altered part of yourself.
It shows who you are!!
It will show what you are made of!!
It will show & build you character!!
So Now go and fail agian…once more!! Don’t be afraid
For me failures means I am trying. I am becoming dynamic with ideas.
It gives a certainty about your creativity & joy.
You have to love it what it is. Unless you embrace your failure and try again you are never going to reach where you are trying to.
Once in a while this strikes my mind that everybody drops the ball saying you are not perfect.
But you have to ask your self back that are you born to to be perfect or be you instead?
Are you trying so hard to live up to everybodys expectations or to build in your strength and character?
But you can be reborn again…Each and every day.
You could get up and recommit.
And keep it up till your last gasp of air in your lungs and you recommit in your death bed.
Then You become Success.
“The biggest risk is not taking any risk. In a world that changing really quickly, the only strategy that is guaranteed to fail is not taking risks.”
– Mark Zuckerberg
On a Personal Note, I wanna share my experience
You might never fail on the scale I did or might, but some failure in life is inevitable. It is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all – in which case, you fail by default.(Inspired by Someone I don’t remember)
Failure gave me an inner security that I had never attained by passing examinations. Failure taught me things about myself that I could have learned no other way. I discovered that I had a strong will, and more discipline than I had suspected; I also found out that I had friends whose values were truly above the price of rubies.
The knowledge that you have emerged wiser and stronger from setbacks means that you are, ever after, secure in your ability to survive. You will never truly know yourself, or the strength of your relationships, until both have been tested by adversity. Such knowledge is a true gift, for all that it is painfully won, and it has been worth more than any qualification I ever earned.
The sweetest victory is the one that’s most difficult. The one that requires you to reach down deep inside, to fight with everything you’ve got, to be willing to leave everything out there on the battlefield—without knowing, until that do-or-die moment, if your heroic effort will be enough. Society doesn’t reward defeat, and you won’t find many failures documented in history books.
Thank You For Your Patience.
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