Experiences a Person must have in its life.
Most of us get so caught up in the life that we never really explore the endless possibilities life can offer us. But there are tons of experiences everyman need in his life that makes him evolve as a person. We listed down couple of things a man must do before dying.
1.Living Life in a beautiful stranger place
Setting off on new paths that lead you to unknown, strange locations where nobody knows you is life changing & exhilarating. Figuring out life, all alone, is something not everyone gets to experience to. Do it while you can, and discover your true self. You will love the experience.
2. A Heartbreak
Heartbreaks may be devastating may leave your heart wide open.but they always teach you a thing or two may be in hard way. Life moves on, and there’s no better of way of realising it than getting your heart broken & get back to on track by yourself
3.A Solo Trip
Pack your bags and Go on a journey without any company all alone, without the surety of having someone around any-moment. The idea may seem scary but totally worth it, but trust me you’ll discover a new side to your personality all along!
4. CompanionshipOf A Dog
A person hasn’t loved a dog and been loved back hasn’t experienced unconditional love ever in life. It is one of the rarest, purest, most unique bond you will ever make in your entire life. Do you believe in love at first sight. Yes I fall in love with every dog I come across.
5.Getting Drunk Out Of Your Wits
It is good to be a responsible drinker sometimes. But every once in a while, you should loosen up this! Let your heart hold fast Drunken nights where you do things you don’t remember the next day always make for great stories that you can narrate. Not being your usual self but a person who is something else, being totally out of control is something worth experiencing at least once in life! Try this once for sure.
6.A Road Trip
At least one road trip before you hit your thirties is a must Like “DIL CHAHTA HAI” or “YEH JAWANI HAI DIWANI”. It is a completely different experience from the regular destination vacations you’ve been going on your entire life . This experience will alter your life’s definition and view towards life. So, hop in to your car and set out on a life-altering journey with your best buds, like there is no tomorrow.
Nothing makes you wiser than being on your own, completely. While you’re young, move out, even if for a while and live on your own. It’ll make a man out of you. This experience will make you wisest & smartest person. You will know how to learn your issues & problems.
8.Being The Best At What You Do
We’re all average in most things we do. If you wanna be the best you have to stand out from the rest.And, we die being ‘the average man’. At least once in your life, feel the high of being ‘the best one’, even if for a moment. Take up a job you really, really love and conquer the world. No matter how small the skill may be, it will make you feel ‘on top of the world’. There is no better feeling than living on the top of the toe.
Yes, fail at least once. Failure is as life-changing as success, probably even more because it changes the prospective. Don’t be afraid to lose. Failure will only make you stronger. Those who hit rock bottom and make their way up make legends. Failure gives a sort of inner security that you would ever known otherwise.
Every person needs to know how liberating it is to make own rules instead of mindlessly conforming to conventions. For once, be who you really are, free from all obligations. Be fearless. Say what you mean, do what you feel like. At least once, you should know what it feels like to not have any fears at all. Don’t let this world judge you. Be yourself. Be the centre of your Universe.
11. Being Completely In Touch With Nature
Spend some time in a totally natural surrounding, with no traces of technology or urban life. Test yourself out one day in the woods and see if you can survive. Look around, observe. Take a plunge into the vast greens of the forest, deep azures of the sea, endless skies. Not only will you realize how tiny you are in the whole universe, you will discover your soul!
A quote from ZNMD reminds me. And it goes like
“The moment flows by like molten sapphire
Deep blue silences
No earth below,No sky above
Rustling branches & Leaves
Are saying only you are here
Only my breath and Heart beat
Such Depth,Such solitude
Me only me
Now i believe i exist”
12.Conquering Your Fear
Every one needs to know fear, and more importantly, what it feels like to conquer it. You must do at least one thing that scares you out of your wits and see yourself emerging stronger. Conquer your fear. Know your flaw and embrace it. You are only held by the line you draw for yourself.
Live Your life in BLOCK LETTERS.
Dont hold yourself back from exploring the indefinite possibilities of this universe.